I told him i love him and dont want the divorce but this is not going to change how I feel about him i do want to be with him. . I have been praying to go every day of my life. It was a half-hearted shot on his part, but I was giving it my all. Every day I feel as I’m experiencing a very slow painful death. And I, as you, could have avoided all of this if I had lived my marriage then as The Lord intended me to.
The book The Prodigal Spouse seemed to be written specifically for me or that’s how I feel anyway. I can’t even imagine how difficult it has been for you. I want to spend rest of my life with him, i love him we were fighting but we used to correct our mistakes and everyone knows we are husband and wife and i want my God to help me to keep my Justin with us and unite as one family. And if your spouse is open to being with you at different times, then, by all means, take those opportunities. Been praying about this and have been trying to do my best to hang in there it hurts so bad especially the current status of him talking and meeting woman. It has been 3.5 years now and the life I have in me I would not trade it for anything, not even another spouse. Satan will be defeated. Either way I would definitely say he is having some kind of internal struggle that he either doesn’t want to share or he doesn’t know how to share. It has also been described as the sin of unforgiveness. I swear the death of a spouse would be easier than this. Be happy and positive and your light will bring the lost ship home:). Praise Him and continue pressing in to Him for restoration for our marriages. Looking for some great streaming picks? Just a brief explanation , Improve yourself. If you would have asked me 6 months ago, I would have told you that I was being a good wife and supported my husband, but in retrospect, I wasn’t. Oh God set things right in each and every one of our marriages…even those involved with the judicial system already….all rulers of this present day earth are no match for our GOD! He’s said he doesn’t think he loves me & is definitely not in love with me.
The fifteen year old son left with the mother but in October came back to live with me permanently. Recently I was being sneaky about talking to a co worker.
We make every effort to establish peace and harmony in our home. Please if anyone can give me some advice or encouraging words I would really appreciate it. However he needs to see that relationship through to the end. I Hope this helps you, because you have to get your mind and faith in the right place so they can bring it through. No communication. I am trying to accept Gods plan and trust in him but its so hard and so painful. Why I married her. He knows that once we divorce we’ll again have the freedom to live as we please – sleeping around, alcohol and drug abuse, endless partying, etc. I can’t imagine how difficult it has been for you, I have not been through a 3 year wait like you have. He came to Sri Lanka in May 2013, and we got married. What are you going to do then? We make every effort to establish peace and harmony in our home. And we are thankful you are now helping other marriages. I don’t have any family or friends…. “I will not give My glory to anyone else.” (Isaiah 42:8).
But my question is when do you give up? Learn how your comment data is processed. I stayed with my wonderful in-laws who were not in contact with him either. I go to a wonderful church and read the bible but I just don’t feel the Lord’s presence and that is horrible for me. Christ said the reason divorce even existed was because of the hardness of the heart. Tell them you are willing to do the work and get the help that will enable the two of you to rebuild your marriage. Pray that your eyes are open to His truth. I’m positive there’s not another man in the picture so I’m lost as to why she does want to work on things. It is not lost or gone, it just is delayed now. I have been pretty strong til this, it sent me over the edge. He does not want you divorced, He wants you and your spouse married for a lifetime, one man married to one woman for life. This article is perfect, because it does give you the reality…it may not work. Hi this post is what ive been looking for its and given me the answers that i need, its been six weeks since me and my wife seperated it wasnt through my choice as im currently serving in cyprus with the UN. Sandy is also surrounded by people who support her wrong choices. This is where a counselor would be able to advise you best. I would pray that GOD would fill the void in his soul and heal his broken heart. I had lived with him more than 10 years but the way he talks we went through so many ups and downs and he I did not conceive second child becoz he was not interested. There is so much more that is not spoken of concerning staying faithful to an unfaithful spouse. But, bugging him, pleading, crying and focusing on the “why’s” isn’t going to bring him back. I have been going to church reading the bible everyday to find peace for my self.
That he wanted me to let go, he didn’t want to hurt me but his plan was be with someone. Rest assured our God is speaking to your prodigal spouse and will get their attention if you continue in His will and obey His word.
Thank you for commenting here. I ended it 5years ago but my husband just found out about 5months ago. My Brother Hang in there. Sin in my Life. She issued a TRO ( temporary restraining order) against me because I tried to see her once after a year and she wasn’t even there at the place, it was completely fabricated and was thrown out of court, then divorced me on the 18month of separation, wanting nothing from me, nothing not even her jewelry from our kindergarten days on up till now, nothing ! I do not know why I even decided to talk to her again after I nearly ruined my marriage. Too many times we want to get through the heartache as quickly as we can because it is so difficult and we loose sight of the important changes that need to take place in us through our trials. It is your faith in what God says, in His word, and in Gods angels to bring it through to you in the physcial world, that wins that battle and brings the answer on through. Need advise please. I am currently going through a separation myself. This is a pivotal time, please pray for us. Travel and Be happy. If we get angry, we are quick to forgive so that we do not have strife in our relationship.
I believe it’s through my prayers and the grace of God that after so many months of fights we are still living under the same roof. I changed my mind but now my husband is in the position I was in and he is the one wanting to move on without me – we are separated. The devil also knows that once the parents are divorced he will gain a stronghold on the children. I have read the eBook version this morning, and it has shared a new light on my/our situation. My husband and I have been married 23 years, we have had some terrible fights.
Is Your Behavior Sabotaging Your Marriage? All rights reserved. | Hot, Holy & Humorous. He can make all things new, we have to follow Him – I’m trying… trying to keep faith – it’s just really hard. I miss my husband too. I had no idea how to have a marriage the way God would have it, and now it’s too late.